Two years ago, a routine health concern led a Christian man Caleb (pseudonym) and his wife into a hospital—and pushed their family into an unknown journey.
What began as minor discomfort soon escalated into a daunting diagnosis: nasopharyngeal carcinoma, bordering on the advanced stage. "The doctors suspected it early on," Caleb recalled. His voice is calm now, yet it still carries the weight of that period. "We sought a second opinion at a major specialized hospital, and the diagnosis was confirmed."
Seeking the best possible care, the couple traveled to a distant city for systemic treatment, beginning a grueling six-month odyssey. For this family, it was more than a medical battle; it was a trial that would test the very limits of their body, mind, and spirit.
Walking Through the Fire
To walk alongside his wife every step of the way, Caleb pressed the "pause" button on his career. He delegated what he could and set aside the rest, devoting his entire existence to her recovery.
The routine was exhausting, as the couple was constantly on the road. He said, "We would drive to the hospital early in the morning, return late at night, and do it all over again the next day."
The intensity of the treatment was beyond imagination. Over six months, his wife underwent dozens of sessions of chemotherapy and radiotherapy. While the treatment suppressed the cancer cells, the side effects were ravaging. In just half a year, she lost nearly 20 kilograms (44 lbs).
Yet, amidst this physical frailty, the family's faith and relationships were undergoing a profound reconstruction.
Redefining Life in the Unknown
Medically, there was a glimmer of hope. Doctors noted that nasopharyngeal cancer has a relatively high cure rate—roughly 70%. Because her condition was caught right at the threshold of the advanced stage, the "timely discovery" was viewed by the family as God's providence and grace.
The crisis forced them to stop and confront the finitude of life. "Our days on this earth are truly limited," Caleb reflected. "Then how should we spend the time we have left?" It was about reordering their priorities.
From Recovery to a New Beginning
When the treatment ended and the recovery phase began, the family did not simply "go back to normal." Instead, their values had shifted.
"Through this experience, my wife and I realized that we must serve the Lord wholeheartedly with the years we have left," Caleb said. "To be alive and able to serve Him is the ultimate blessing."
This internal renewal transformed their domestic life. They learned to eliminate "internal friction"—the petty arguments and emotional exhaustion that drain many marriages. "In my view, the greatest waste of energy in this world is conflict between husband and wife." After more than a decade of marriage, the trial did not break them; it anchored them.
Mission as a Family Unit
The illness also deepened Caleb's understanding of church and ministry. He and his wife emerged with a clearer vision: to serve the church by letting their lives impact those around them.
"God gave us a church, and we can strive to help them," he said. He believes that in an era where many feel lost, a Christian family can provide a clear map by simply modeling a healthy marriage.
"The world is in great need of this; so many families are struggling with broken relationships," Caleb observes. While social organizations can provide charity and service, he believes the unique "light" of a Christian family is the quality of their love. "The most convincing testimony today is to glorify God through the way we live as a couple and as a family. When you light up your own home, you naturally light up the homes of others."
The Joy of the Ordinary
Having stood at the edge of life and death, the family has developed a keen sensitivity to daily joys.
"If you ask me what I enjoy most in this world, first is enjoying God, and second is enjoying my family," Caleb said with a smile. For him, the most beautiful sound is the ringing of the doorbell—a signal that his wife and children are home, and the family can enjoy a peaceful evening together.
Weekends have become precious. Caleb cherishes the time spent with his son—talking, playing, and simply being present. "I know these times and opportunities are fleeting," he added.
A Complete Healing
Today, Caleb's wife is fully recovered. Looking back, they see more than a medical cure; they see a reconstruction of their mission, relationship, and life.
The change in his wife is palpable. Once passive about ministry, she is now vibrant and warm, finding joy in hospitality and caring for others in the church.
"God healed my wife. Now, she has a chance to live life all over again," Caleb said.
Originally published by the Christian Times
- Edited by Poppy Chan
